Seeking a Therapist

I have been doing a lot of soul searching lately and have decided its time I see a therapist.  Although I am not at the point in my life right now to start transitioning, the desire and urge to be Dayna has intensified tremendously.  I am hoping I can find a balance and happy medium where I am content with the limited Dayna time I have.  I have been struggling with it for awhile now.  If anyone knows of a good gender identity therapist in New Jersey, please let me know. Hugs, Dayna